There is always a saying online that blocks men: Do you love me as a person or that layer of film? This sentence itself is a concept switch. The human body is a complete entity that cannot be separated at all. The most precious part is already a part of herself. We cannot demand others to accept her in her entirety at the same time, Take out your most precious piece alone without discussing it. This once-in-a-lifetime trump card, the choice has always been in her hands. Many women use their most precious youth as capital, First, go to the cohabitation track to place bets and gamble. If you win the bet, cultivate with the person you have been longing for. Once the bet is lost, the capital is depleted and there is no way out. Just turned around and rushed into the marriage track, leaving the aftermath for honest people to pick up. The action has already explained everything: In her heart, the cohabitation track takes priority over the marriage track. The best and most sincere life was entrusted to cohabitation. Until the dream is shattered and the years grow older. The remaining self that needs a stable safety net is left for marriage. Equivalent to splitting oneself by hand: The hottest and most precious, it belongs to cohabitation. The aftermath that chicken feathers need to bear is left for marriage, waiting for honest people to take care of. What does' newlywed 'mean? Originally, it was two people, each showing their most precious sincerity and exchanging equally. Many marriages nowadays are putting the cart before the horse. The woman's most precious bargaining chip has long been entrusted to someone else. It's the honest man's turn, but he demands that he bring out his RV and a high dowry. Many people are not simply those who admire the strong. What they are infatuated with are mostly not strong and hardworking individuals. But someone who is good at drawing pancakes. Honest people are one and two, they won't fabricate a beautiful future to deceive others. No matter how good one's character or appearance is, it is difficult to be selected at the beginning. Only two types of people can get this unique trump card: Either having money in hand at the moment can immediately satisfy desires. Either they are particularly good at drawing big cakes and only use sweet words to fill their expectations. Even wealthy people can still draw big cakes, promise to say whatever they want, and never easily hand over their wealth. Both scumbags and fake billionaires follow the same harvesting routine. They won't provide real and long-term guarantees. Only use big cakes to set the game. As long as the woman bets and hands over her most precious trump card. Get the chips and immediately withdraw, not fulfilling any promises. All losses shall be borne solely by the female party. I lost all my capital in a gambling game. She has learned all the ways to set up this plan. Wait until you meet a kind and honest person, and switch roles directly. She no longer has any equivalent chips to exchange. I can only draw a big cake: let's live a good life together in the future. Lure honest people to take out RVs, dowries, and lifelong responsibilities to bet. The honest person actually paid the capital to fill the hole she lost in the last gambling game. She was the one who was harvested at the gambling table before. After losing, learn from the reaper's methods, start a new round, and pull honest people to accept bad debts. Marriage is originally a reciprocal exchange of sincerity. Men were originally willing to prepare wedding rooms and dowries. Take all your chips and exchange them for that unique sincerity. But she took this chip early to bet on the game. In the end, no tangible returns were received, resulting in a total loss. The most unfair thing is here: The person who took her trump card back then will not make up for her loss. After losing money, he turned around to look for the honest person and still demanded all the chips. The loss from the previous investment failure is passed on to honest people who have never participated. An honest person can confidently ask: I am willing to take out all the RV dowry. But the unique sincerity I want, you have already given it to me. You bet on yourself and lose, why do you expect me to foot the bill to support you? Cohabitation track, no need to bear long-term marital responsibilities, but can get the most sincere companionship. The marriage track gradually only serves as a backup. Since many people prioritize cohabitation in their hearts. Honest people don't need to rush into the marriage race all at once and be a big scapegoat. Previously, only women screened men for cohabitation. Nowadays, awakened men can also use cohabitation to screen their partners in reverse. What men desire most is never a marriage certificate. Just someone who is wholeheartedly devoted and can accompany them until old age. It is becoming increasingly difficult to find someone who is wholeheartedly devoted in the marriage arena nowadays. Don't rush to empty your family and get married. You can go ahead and get along with the screening step first. Take your time to see if the other person loves themselves and genuinely cares for you. It's not appropriate to withdraw at any time, don't bet all your assets early. In ancient times, there were three engagements and six gifts, and the dowry house was not a sale. Men show great sincerity just to exchange for a complete and dedicated heart. Nowadays, this peer-to-peer exchange has long collapsed. The most precious thing is to entrust it to short-term relationships, leave the aftermath to marriage, and have the man fully pay for it. The bottom line of online suppression of men. The essence is to break the standards of men and coax honest people to unconditionally accept the deal. Don't immediately agree with accepting the past as soon as you hear it. Every choice I made in my early years had to pay the price sooner or later. Men who have a long-term perspective tend to avoid those who have had long-term cohabitation experiences. They understand that a person's value ranking is difficult to change. In the long days to come, this matter will always be an unbreakable thorn. A person who does not love themselves finds it difficult to cherish and do their best to treat them well from the bottom of their heart. Once entering into marriage, only men continue to contribute. The other party cannot provide equivalent sincere feedback. From the beginning, your positioning was to provide a safety net. This is the true root of the current divorce wave. Countless honest people have spent all their money to get married. Slowly faith collapses, long-term mental exhaustion, and when it reaches a critical point, we can only part ways. No one can hold onto the most precious thing on their own. Why demand others to gamble their entire lives to ensure their safety? Our ancestors said, 'Love yourself first, only then will someone truly love you.'. If one does not cherish oneself, no matter how much others contribute, they cannot fill this gap. A large number of honest people have finally seen through the bottom truth of the marriage and love market. Slowly exit the matchmaking track. When two people get along well, they accompany each other and screen each other. Don't easily empty your family and become a backer for others' failed gambling games. Remember one sentence: Love does not mean unconditional safety net. No man is born to pay for someone else's early choices