So, as an average Chinese man, you need to provide emotional value, pay a bride price, treat people to meals, and basically give up almost everything you have to get married. However, as a white man in China, he doesn’t need to do anything. That’s why I say, be a true alpha Chinese man. The overall environment is like this and can’t be changed, but as an individual, you can change. Making yourself stronger is the only solution. Quickly develop a mature worldview and perspective on relationships.