There’s a saying: One of life’s main goals is to be noticed and treated with kindness. A lot of Musk’s kids were ignored in their early years, spending all day being looked after by nannies and servants who were just doing their jobs for money. Even as they grew up, most people were only interested in the family’s resources, so it’s hard to say how much genuine kindness they received... So he’s always surrounded by people pretending to be kind