Share six top investment mindsets! If you want to make good investments, you really can't do it without a good mindset; In fact, if you want to live a good life, isn't that right? A good mentality is sometimes more healing than good medicine and more precious than wealth. Today, I would like to share with my brothers six top-level mindsets that have greatly benefited me, hoping to warm you up and accompany you in your investments. ① Don't look back and dwell on the past Almost every investor has experienced losses and made some decisions that later seemed "foolish". But things have passed and we have been growing. There is really no need to dwell on past losses or feel guilty about our past judgments. Who didn't start from ignorance and gradually become the person they are now? Let the past truly pass, and the future will come steadily. As stated in the Four Teachings of the Living, "In the past, all things were like yesterday's death; in the future, all things are like today's life Many of us may harbor some childhood wounds, big or small regrets, in our hearts. But if we are willing to try to reconcile with the past, completely let go of those pains, and with the improvement of our cognition and the opening of our hearts, we will gradually understand that those hurdles that we couldn't go through will eventually become the path under our feet. ② Don't let perfectionism hold you hostage Master Hongyi has a saying that particularly moved me: "Life cannot be so fulfilling, everything only seeks half satisfaction When it comes to investing, the biggest fear is pursuing perfection. Like Buffett, he has also done "stupid things". He acquired Berkshire Hathaway in the past, but later he himself said it was a huge failure. As ordinary people, there is no need to demand that we make accurate judgments and make profits from every investment. Don't be obsessed with a 100% accuracy rate, and don't always aim to earn the highest returns. The 'fuzzy correctness' is already very good, and being able to maintain a long-term annualized rate of around 10% is already very impressive. Being too harsh on oneself and pursuing non-existent perfection is actually incompatible with oneself. There is no perfect investment in this world, only a rhythm that suits you. ③ Not changing others is a kind of clarity There are always "new leeks" in the stock/cryptocurrency market. When they see some impulsive operations, experienced players can't help but want to give them some guidance and change them. But to be honest, always wanting to change others is a disease that needs to be treated. We cannot change anyone, but we may drag ourselves into the vortex of emotions by forcefully intervening in the cause and effect of others. So I remind myself: just share, don't change. I mentioned a player who suffered from a nervous breakdown due to speculative losses before. Although I sympathize, I know that's the path he must take. If he himself is not conscious and unwilling to change, it's useless for anyone to pull him. Recently, I saw him playing with some high-risk targets and making a lot of money, but I know that it's difficult to keep this kind of money, and it may end up being a mess again... It's really a pity to waste his life in the daily emotional ups and downs. So now I have learned: respecting the fate of others is the key to cherishing one's own energy. In life, we always want to change our family and partners, but that's really a delusion. What we can do is to respect them as they are, and then manage ourselves seriously. ④ Other people's evaluations are really not that important A few days ago, I posted an article and the comment section was particularly lively, with everything being said, and even some of the words had personal attacks. But I didn't take it to heart at all. Because I know that's not the real me. Who am I, only I can define myself. Others cannot hinder my growth, nor can they affect me from becoming myself. The best attitude when facing external evaluations is to be indifferent, indifferent, and indifferent. How others evaluate you often reflects their own inner self - a person who cannot accept themselves is also difficult to tolerate others; A person who is accustomed to being self critical sees flaws in others everywhere; People with dark corners in their hearts see everything dirty. So, those unpleasant words are actually projections from their inner selves, why should we punish ourselves? As the French philosopher Sartre said, "The person you see in your eyes is not you; the person you see in others' eyes is not you; the person you see in your eyes is you." This world, to some extent, is a reflection of our inner selves. When faced with negative reviews, simply dismiss them with a smile, which precisely exposes their inner anxiety and darkness. ⑤ If you can't control something, just let it go The biggest characteristic of investment is impermanence. We cannot predict the future, nor can we control the trend. The only thing we can do is to be prepared for the present and deal with various uncertainties. For those things that we have no control over, such as who will participate in the US election, whether the Federal Reserve will cut interest rates, and whether policies will produce positive results... just let it go, don't worry about these things. Because your anxiety is useless - if something really happens, worrying cannot stop it; If it hadn't happened, wouldn't you have wasted your precious emotions and time for nothing? Life is not in the past, nor in the future, it is in this moment. When encountering unsolvable problems in life, it is advisable to put them aside first, read books, meditate, exercise, and enhance one's energy and cognition. When you stand on a higher dimension, previously unsolvable problems may naturally have answers; Or at that time, you may find that the problem itself is no longer important. ⑥ Regard suffering and injury as an ugly gift packaged in packaging In our lifetime, it is inevitable that we will be hurt and experience difficulties. Suffering is a part of this world that cannot be avoided, and paralysis is only temporary. Only by facing it directly and cultivating one's own state of mind can one truly depart from hardship and find joy. Every injury, every low point, is actually a gift carefully prepared by life, but the packaging is a bit ugly. When you truly understand the meaning behind it, you will find that it is another form of gift from fate. Everything has two sides. A bad thing that happens may have a good turning point hidden behind it. So we need to learn to transform and approach things dialectically - not blindly optimistic, but believing that all experiences will eventually make us more complete. Finally, brothers: A good mentality is the foundation for us to live well. Our ultimate goal in making money in the stock market and cryptocurrency circle is to live a happier and more comfortable life. Never put the cart before the horse - it's not about making money that brings happiness, but about investing with a happy state or maintaining inner peace during the investment process. If you don't understand this, even if you make money, you may not feel happy. I would like to share a quote that I really like, from writer Xue Mo: Ask yourself, whether it's pursuing fame and fortune or enjoying life, isn't it to make yourself happier? So, if you lose your composure and peace, and live in constant fear and worry, what's the point of all your actions May we all cultivate a peaceful heart amidst fluctuations, living well while investing calmly. Encouragement together!