"Want to get rich, want to turn your life around, you have to be ruthless—definitely be a bit ruthless."
I have never met Xia Xueyi, but I always feel he is a tough person and has a strong luck with benefactors—because I believe that those who have good luck with benefactors will have many advantages.
He has also done some shocking things in my opinion, such as sharing views in friend and family groups, saying he wants to buy Bitcoin. I would never dare to have such enthusiasm because human nature is too complex; if you make money, you're great, but if you lose, you're a fool...
Returning to this article, the biggest impression is "ruthless"—my definition of ruthless is not fierce or wicked, but a kind of obsession and decisiveness in a certain sense.
In the past, there was a clothing advertisement with a line, "Men need to be a bit ruthless towards themselves," which has always impressed me.
What is ruthless?
Waking up and getting out of bed immediately, saying you want to lose weight and then losing it right away—these are examples, but there are more difficult ones.
For example, if you say you want to become a certain type of person in five years, and then you immediately start taking action and stick to it for five years, becoming the person you wanted and were meant to be is really impressive.
In life, no matter what goal you set, as long as it is big enough, you stick to it long enough, and your fighting spirit lasts long enough, then you are a truly ruthless person.
Some people may have a "fake ruthlessness" like "if eating shit could make you rich instantly," but they don't have the true ruthlessness to think about problems from a 10-year perspective.
In this reflection by Xia Xueyi, there are several points that I find very enlightening:
First, he said he completely failed, with his assets shrinking by 90%. Behind this is actually a ruthless process and result of putting everything on the line, heavily investing in altcoins, and the cryptocurrency market changed, but he persisted for too long—this was actually one of the ways he got rich in the past. And this ruthlessness is also reflected in finally facing past mistakes head-on and making serious corrections.
Everyone makes many mistakes, but those who can recognize their mistakes and decisively change them are truly impressive.
For example, a person who has smoked for many years decides to quit and immediately does so; this person is definitely not going to be mediocre.
In history, there was a person who said that to practice martial arts, one must castrate themselves, and with a snap, they did it. This person later became invincible...
Secondly, setting a 10-year goal for oneself to regain their peak is also a kind of ruthlessness.
Everyone should set a goal for themselves that is 10 years away and have a clear execution path.
Without crazy goals, there won’t be crazy results.
Men, as a species, must be ruthless enough towards themselves—to have the strength to treat those they care about well.
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