🧐 The question of "how to establish a core long-term co-construction circle" mentioned yesterday has prompted several friends to reach out to me privately—

I suddenly realized: most people will never establish a core circle in their lifetime, not because of a lack of ability, but because psychologically, they simply do not allow it.

Because the phrase "long-term co-construction" means you have to acknowledge something very uncomfortable:

Many of the things you are doing right now will not yield immediate returns.

And human nature inherently rejects this state; we are accustomed to a different logic:

Investments must yield immediate results

Relationships should be quickly monetized

In cooperation, I must not incur losses

So you will find that many people seem to have plenty of friends and numerous collaborations, but the underlying structure of these relationships is only one type—short-term exchange.

On the other hand, the long-term co-construction of core relationships precisely steps on the opposite side of this psychological defense line. It requires you, at certain stages:

To accept temporary losses

To accept that judgments may be wrong

To accept that you cannot currently gain direct benefits

And all of this will trigger a strong sense of discomfort:

"Am I wasting my time?"

Most people actually drop out right here.

A more brutal and deeper layer is that true long-term co-construction will inevitably lead to a binding of interests.

You can observe all organizations, families, and partnerships that have survived for a long time:

At some stage, they must have actively given up short-term personal optimization in exchange for long-term structural stability.

This is a consensus at the level of civilization.

Any attempt to replace interest binding cooperation with "mutual understanding," "long-term trust," or "shared values" will almost always break apart in the face of a reality shock.

Because relationships without interest binding are essentially "freely exit-able relationships."

And once exit is allowed at any time, people will inevitably choose self-preservation when the environment changes or risks increase.

This is also why:

Core circles take a long time to form

In the early stages, it may seem extremely unprofitable

People will continuously leave midway

So this cannot be rushed; you cannot create a core long-term co-construction circle through short-term deliberate socializing, frequent flattery, or resource exchanges.

It is more like a result—

Are you willing to bear uncertainty for a few people and a few directions over a sufficiently long period of time?

But once formed, its compounding effect is far greater than any short-term profit!

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