Some friends say, "Sister-in-law is so understanding."
For anything, I prefer to look inward.
Women and men are indeed different, even though they are both human…
Women need more emotional value and a sense of security.
If a woman is being difficult, on one hand, it's her own issue, and on the other hand, it's the man's issue.
But when faced with such problems, who is the most important key?
It must be oneself, because you chose your partner…
People often say that marriage requires management, but how can one manage their marriage well? This topic is quite broad…
Let's talk specifically about the issue of women being difficult.
It requires you to provide adequate romantic companionship (including sex) and address material concerns…
"At midnight, you need to bring me a pair of socks to wear."
To me, it sounds like, bring me a pair of socks, and then wash them nicely so we can immediately get down to business…
Anyone, whether man or woman, has deeper meanings hidden behind certain behaviors. Of course, the meanings above are just my wild guesses, as that behavior is indeed quite strange, and the person involved needs to reflect on the strange behavior…
"Sister-in-law is understanding," that’s because, on one hand, my wife is gentle, kind, and virtuous. This is something I slowly sought out from the seventy or eighty women I met through matchmaking, or even nearly a hundred. If I wanted to get married, our child would already be in middle school, not just three years old…
A few days ago, the turtle I was raising was overfed and died…
She was sad all night, repeatedly reminding me to bury it properly the next day…
My mother-in-law said, "Just throw it in the trash can."
But that was the little turtle she had personally cared for for three months, and she was gloomy all day…
The next day, I took her and our child downstairs to bury the little turtle.
What is "companionship"? It’s feeling her emotions and doing those seemingly unimportant little things together, protecting her feelings and mood.
The day before yesterday was my birthday; my wife bought me a gift, cooked for me, and spent the day with me.
Similarly, I also put in the effort; on her birthday, I accompanied her and gave her a gift.
We celebrated our wedding anniversary together in our little world.
Additionally, what is a sense of security?
On one hand, it is the material foundation built from houses, cars, etc. Money needs to be sufficient, and I set some requirements for her: don’t disturb me when I’m working late at night!
Just like Nie Yuan giving his wife two to three million a month, and her family taking care of him…
On the other hand, it is knowing that we are only for each other and cannot be separated.
To be honest, regardless of gender, the simpler the social relationships, the better they will be. How many close friends have been jealous of living better than you?
We don’t have many friends, not because we don’t socialize, but because we are laid-back and let things happen naturally; people come and go, everything is simple.
As a full-time trader at home in my fifth year, my wife has also just entered her fifth year of not working alongside me.
I work hard to trade and make money, seeking our freedom.
Not bound by worldly constraints, living freely and effortlessly.
At 35, life is but a dream; it will be very short.
I just want to take the ones I love with me to continue experiencing the beauty of this world together.
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